In Southern and Appalachian speech, "behoove" means to be wise, proper, or beneficial for someone to do. Once common in older English, it survives most strongly in the South and Appalachia.
Oh when my Momma used 'behoove,' it meant business. I still hear this one, but it's less common nowadays.
Hillbilly Dude Says...
Oh when my Momma used 'behoove,' it meant business. I still hear this one, but it's less common nowadays.
Pronunciation
[beh-HOOV]
/bɪˈhuːv/
Meaning & Usage
- To be proper, wise, or necessary for someone (verb)
Advice or warning
Mae:
He keeps runnin’ late.
Earl:
It’d behoove him to start leavin’ earlier.
Moral guidance
Ruby:
They’re fussin’ again.
Estel:
Well, it might behoove ’em to calm down a bit.
variations: behoof (rare older form)
★ "Behoove" sounds formal in most of the country, but in the South and Appalachia it’s regular, natural talk - especially when offering advice, caution, or gentle correction. ★
Origin and Etymology
From Old English behōfian, meaning "to be necessary." The word survived in rural Southern and Appalachian English long after fading elsewhere in casual speech.
Usage Notes
Often used in advice or soft warning:
It’d behoove you to" - strong suggestion or good sense
Might behoove him/her - polite caution or correction
Doesn’t behoove - improper, unwise, or unfitting behavior
Still widely understood across the U.S., but used far more naturally and frequently in Southern and Appalachian communities.
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