In Southern and Appalachian speech, "fiddle with" means to tinker with, adjust, or mess with something-usually hands-on and with mild curiosity or persistence. It can mean fixing, experimenting, or simply fooling with something that probably works fine.
When somebody talks about 'fiddling with' something, we aren't talking about being nervous or fidgety around here. It's usually about endless tinkerin'.
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When somebody talks about 'fiddling with' something, we aren't talking about being nervous or fidgety around here. It's usually about endless tinkerin'.
Pronunciation
[FID-uhl with] /ˈfɪd.əl wɪð/
Meaning & Usage
- To work on, adjust, or experiment with something casually or persistently
Out by the truck
Earl:
He’s been fiddlin’ with that carburetor all day.
Ray:
That’s how he learns.
- To handle or move something idly (less common Southern use)
At the kitchen table
Mama:
Quit fiddlin’ with your fork and eat.
variations: fiddlin’ with, fiddle around with
Origin and Etymology
From the verb "fiddle," meaning to play or handle lightly.
In Southern and Appalachian English, the sense broadened from simple "fidgeting" to include **casual tinkering or light repair work**-reflecting a culture of hands-on problem-solving and experimentation.
Usage Notes
Common across the South and Appalachia for everyday tinkering, fixing, or adjusting.
Tone is gentle and familiar-often said half-warning, half-affectionate.
"She’s been fiddlin’ with that biscuit recipe again." → experimenting.
"Don’t fiddle with that dial." → stop messing with something delicate.
"He likes to fiddle with small engines." → hobbyist tinkering.
Outside the South, "fiddle with" usually means simple fidgeting; here, it often means active tinkering or trial-and-error work.
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When somebody talks about 'fiddling with' something, we aren't talking about being nervous or fidgety around here. It's usually about endless tinkerin'. 
