Gom
In Southern and Appalachian speech, "gom" means a mess, tangle, or disorderly situation. It can also describe someone who’s clumsy or making a fuss.
synonyms: mess, tangle, clutter, confusion
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Pronunciation
[GAHM] /ɡɑm/
Meaning & Usage
- A mess, tangle, or fuss (noun)
Hazel:
What happened to this yarn?
Earl:
It’s all in a gom. I’ll never get it straightened out.
- To mess up or make a tangle (verb, chiefly used in phrases like ‘gommed up’)
Hazel:
Don’t gom it up, now - I just fixed it.
variations: gaum (less common spelling)
★ "Gom" as a noun means a mess; "gommed up" works as the verb phrase - both are common in Appalachian talk. ★
Origin
From Scots-Irish dialect, where "gaum" meant "sense" or "attention." In Appalachia, the meaning shifted over the 19th century toward "mess" or "tangle," becoming a distinct regionalism.
Notes
- Most common in Appalachia (Kentucky, Tennessee, North Carolina, West Virginia).
- Still heard from older speakers; younger generations may recognize it but use it less often.
- Appears in both noun and verb forms, but the noun ("a gom") is most common.