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Hemhaw

In Appalachian and Southern speech, "hemhaw" means to hesitate, stall, or beat around the bush without getting to the point. It’s the regional form of the older national phrase "hem and haw."

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Pronunciation

[HEM-haw]

Meaning & Usage

- To hesitate or stall before speaking or deciding (verb)

Asking for an answer
Mae:
Well, are you comin’ or not?

Earl:
I don’t know"

Mae:
Don’t just hemhaw around - say yes or no!

- To avoid getting to the point (verb)

After a long story
Mae:
He hemhawed around for ten minutes before he ever told me the price.

variations: stall, hesitate, beat around the bush, dawdle, drag feet, waste time, won’t spit it out
★ "Hemhaw" almost always carries a tone of impatience - the speaker wants someone to quit stalling and get on with it. ★

Origin and Etymology

From the older English phrase "hem and haw," which mimicked the sounds of hesitation. In Appalachia and the South, it got slurred together into the simpler, sharper "hemhaw."

Usage Notes

Common throughout the South and Appalachia, especially in rural speech. Outside these regions, most people still say "hem and haw," but they understand "hemhaw" when they hear it.

Say It Like a Southerner

Said plain: "hem-haw." Often drawn out as "hemhawin’" when describing someone hesitating.

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Common Questions

Is "hemhaw" the same as "hem and haw"?
Yes - it’s the Appalachian and Southern form of the same phrase.
Do people outside the South use "hemhaw"?
Rarely. Most Americans say "hem and haw."
Is it still used today?
Very much so - especially among older speakers, but younger folks still say it too.

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