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Actin’ Ugly

In Appalachian and Southern speech, "actin’ ugly" means behaving badly - being rowdy, disruptive, or mean-spirited. It’s usually a scolding, said to children or anyone carrying on in an unkind way.

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Pronunciation

[AK-tin UHG-lee]

Meaning & Usage

- To misbehave or be disruptive (verb phrase)

At church
Mae:
Them kids was actin’ ugly the whole service.

- To be unkind or mean-spirited in behavior (verb phrase)

At the supper table
Earl:
Don’t be actin’ ugly toward your sister.

other spellings: acting up, misbehaving, rowdy, mean, hateful, out of line, and ugly acting
★ When someone’s "actin’ ugly," it’s not about looks - it’s about behavior. The phrase almost always comes out as a warning or correction. ★

Origin

From the older English sense of "ugly" meaning unpleasant or offensive. In Appalachia and the South, it stuck as a common way to describe bad or mean behavior.

Notes

Very common in Appalachian and Southern family talk, especially among parents and elders. Rare outside the region, where "ugly" is usually limited to appearance.

Say It Like a Southerner

Said plain: "ak-tin ug-lee." The "g" in "acting" is dropped.

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Common Questions

Does "actin’ ugly" mean being physically unattractive?
No - in this context, it means behaving badly.
Is it always about kids?
Not always - adults can be called out for "actin’ ugly" too.
Do people outside the South say this?
Rarely. It’s strongly tied to Appalachian and Southern speech.
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