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Cat Got Your Tongue?

"Cat got your tongue?" is a playful way of asking why someone is quiet. In Appalachian and Southern speech, it’s used with kids or anyone who suddenly goes silent.

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Pronunciation

[cat got yer TUNG]

Meaning & Usage

- Why are you so quiet? (saying)

At the table
Mae:
You ain’t said a word all night.

Earl:
What’s wrong - cat got your tongue?

variations: why so quiet, speechless, tongue-tied, can’t talk, silent as a stone, what’s the matter
★ It’s usually meant playfully, but can sometimes carry a scolding edge if someone refuses to speak up. ★

Origin and Etymology

The phrase shows up in English by the 1800s, possibly from the image of a cat catching hold of the tongue. Some link it to the "cat-o’-nine-tails" whip used as punishment, though that’s debated. Appalachia picked it up along with other English proverbs.

Usage Notes

Not unique to Appalachia, but common in Southern and mountain talk, especially with children. Still recognized widely across the U.S.

Say It Like a Southerner

Say it teasing, with a raised brow: "Cat got your tongue?"

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Common Questions

Does it mean an actual cat?
No - it’s a figurative, playful question.
Is it only Appalachian?
No - it’s a shared proverb, but it’s long been part of mountain speech.
Do people still say it today?
Yes, especially in playful or teasing situations.

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