Dern It!

In Southern and Appalachian speech, "dern it" is a mild exclamation of frustration or annoyance. It’s a softened form of "darn it," often used in family talk as a polite substitute for stronger words.

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Hillbilly Dude Says...

You'll still hill "dern it! out in the country for sure."

Hillbilly Dude Says...

You'll still hill "dern it! out in the country for sure."

Pronunciation

[DURN-it]

Meaning & Usage

- An exclamation of mild frustration (interjection)

Mae:

What’s wrong?

Earl:

Dern it, I burned the biscuits.

★ "Dern it" keeps the country flavor of fussin’ without crossing into hard cussin’. That’s why older folks and church-going families often favored it. ★

Origin and Etymology

A softened variant of "darn it," which itself was a stand-in for "dang it." Southerners leaned on "dern" or "durn" as an even gentler, folksier version.

Usage Notes

Still heard in rural Southern and Appalachian speech, especially among older generations. Outside the region, it’s recognized but usually sounds quaint or old-fashioned.

Say It Like a Southerner

Said plain: "durn-it" or "dern-it." Vowels shift with accent - sometimes closer to "durn," sometimes "dern."

Kin Topics

Common Questions

Is "dern it" a cuss word?

No - it’s a softened substitute, meant to avoid strong language.

Do people still say it today?

Yes, though more often among older Southerners.

What’s the difference between "dern" and "durn"?

Just vowel variation - both are regional pronunciations of "darn."

How to Cite This Page

APA (7th edition)
The Hillbilly Dude. (2025, September 8). Dern It!. HillbillySlang.com. https://www.hillbillyslang.com/sayings/dern-it
MLA (9th edition)
"The Hillbilly Dude." "Dern It!." HillbillySlang.com, 8 Sept. 2025, https://www.hillbillyslang.com/sayings/dern-it.
Chicago (17th edition)
The Hillbilly Dude. "Dern It!." HillbillySlang.com. September 8, 2025. https://www.hillbillyslang.com/sayings/dern-it.