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Don’t Get the Big Head

In Appalachian and Southern speech, "Don’t get the big head" means don’t become arrogant or overly proud after a success. It’s a folksy way of telling someone to stay humble.

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Pronunciation

[DONT git thuh BIG HED]

Meaning & Usage

- To warn someone not to become conceited (verb phrase/dialect)

After winning a prize
Mae:
You’re pretty good at that banjo.

Earl:
Thanks - but don’t worry, I won’t get the big head.

- To caution humility in the community (verb phrase/dialect)

Talking to a young athlete
Mae:
They’re cheerin’ for you now, but don’t get the big head.

other spellings: don’t git the big head
★ "Get the big head" is a classic mountain expression - the "big head" is a metaphor for swollen pride. It’s still common in rural Southern speech and high school sports pep talks. ★

Origin

From Southern/Appalachian folk speech. The "big head" image of swelling with pride dates back to at least the 19th century and appears in regional newspapers, sermons, and folk tales.

Notes

Still widely used in the South, especially among older generations, coaches, and parents. It’s far less common in northern states, where "get a big head" exists but without the folksy ring of "don’t get the big head."

Say It Like a Southerner

Said plain: "don’t get the big head." Sometimes "don’t git a big head."

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Common Questions

Does "get the big head" mean literally swelling up?
No - it’s a figurative way to say "becoming conceited."
Is it still said today?
Yes - still a staple admonition in the South and Appalachia.
Is it unique to the South?
"Big head" exists elsewhere, but "don’t get the big head" as a set phrase is strongly Southern/Appalachian.
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