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Don’t Look a Gift Horse in the Mouth

"Don’t look a gift horse in the mouth" means don’t question or criticize a gift. In Appalachian and Southern speech, it’s a reminder to be thankful for what’s given, not picky about its value.

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Pronunciation

[dohnt luk uh gift hors in thuh MOUTH]

Meaning & Usage

- To not find fault with a gift (proverb)

At the table
Mae:
That ham’s a little salty.

Earl:
Hush now, don’t look a gift horse in the mouth.

- To accept what’s given without complaint (figurative)

After borrowing tools
Mae:
This hammer’s rusty.

Earl:
Still works fine. Don’t look a gift horse in the mouth.

other spellings: never look a gift horse in the mouth
★ This saying is about gratitude. It gently scolds someone for being ungrateful or too critical of a gift, especially when times are lean. ★

Origin

The proverb goes back to Latin ("don’t inspect the teeth of a given horse"), since a horse’s age and value are judged by its teeth. It spread into English by the 1500s and survived strongly in rural speech, especially in the South and Appalachia where horse talk was everyday life.

Notes

Common worldwide, not only in the South, but it feels natural in Appalachian and Southern storytelling. The shorter "don’t" is more common in speech, while "never" often shows up in print.

Say It Like a Southerner

Said plain: "don’t look a gift horse in the mouth." Sometimes heard as "never look a gift horse in the mouth."

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Common Questions

Is this only Southern?
No - it’s an old worldwide proverb, but it lives comfortably in Southern/Appalachian talk.
What does it mean exactly?
Don’t criticize a gift or be ungrateful for something free.
Which is correct: "don’t" or "never"?
Both are used - "don’t" is common in speech, "never" in older books and formal collections.
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