In Appalachian and Southern speech, "Every tub must sit on its own bottom" is an old-time proverb meaning each person must take responsibility for themselves. It’s a classic piece of folk wisdom passed down by older generations.
'Every tub must sit on its own bottom' isn't one I've heard that I can remembers - so I assume it's regional and old timers.
Hillbilly Dude Says...
'Every tub must sit on its own bottom' isn't one I've heard that I can remembers - so I assume it's regional and old timers.
Pronunciation
[EV-ree TUB must SIT on its OWN BAH-tum]
Meaning & Usage
- Everyone must take responsibility for themselves (proverb)
Talking about bills
Mae:
Nobody’s gonna pay your rent for you.
Earl:
Yep - every tub must sit on its own bottom.
- Each person or project must stand alone (proverb)
Advice about work
Mae:
They won’t bail you out at that job.
Earl:
Every tub must sit on its own bottom - best learn quick.
variations: each tub must sit on its own bottom
★ This is one of those "old-timer" sayings that signals self-reliance - a bedrock Southern/Appalachian value. "Tub" here means a vessel with legs; "bottom" is the base it rests on. It’s a metaphor for self-support. ★
Origin and Etymology
Collected in Appalachian folk speech since at least the 1800s and noted in WPA oral histories. Strongly associated with the American South and still quoted by older generations.
Usage Notes
Less common among younger speakers today but instantly recognizable to older Southerners. Rare outside the South and Appalachia, which makes it a distinctive regional proverb.
Say It Like a Southerner
Said plain: "every tub must sit on its own bottom." Sometimes "each tub’s gotta sit on its own bottom."
No - it’s a metaphor for each person or thing supporting itself.
Is it still used?
Mostly among older Southerners or in historical contexts, but it’s a cherished folk saying.
Where did it originate?
Appalachian speech traditions; documented since the 19th century.
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APA (7th edition)
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