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Hold Your Horses

In Appalachian and Southern speech, "Hold your horses" is a common saying meaning "slow down" or "be patient." It comes from horse-riding days when you literally had to keep your horses from bolting ahead.

#Appalachia

Pronunciation

[HOHLD yer HOR-siz]

Meaning & Usage

- Be patient, slow down (saying)

In a kitchen
Mae:
Hold your horses, supper ain’t ready yet.

Earl:
But I’m starvin’.

other spellings: slow down, wait a minute, hang on, take it easy, and rein it in
★ This one works with kids, neighbors, or anybody moving too fast. It’s firm but usually good-natured. ★

Origin

The phrase dates back to the 1800s, when controlling a horse team was a daily task. Settlers carried it into Appalachian speech, where it became a common idiom for patience.

Notes

Still common in Appalachia and the South, but also widely recognized across America. It often carries a bit of humor or affection when used with kids.

Say It Like a Southerner

Say it plain: "Hold yer horses." The "your" usually softens to "yer."

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Common Questions

Does "Hold your horses" literally mean with horses?
Not today - it’s figurative, meaning "slow down" or "be patient."
Is it still used in Appalachia?
Absolutely - it’s part of everyday talk, especially with kids.
Is it unique to the South?
No - it spread nationwide, but it’s still a staple in Southern and Appalachian speech.
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