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Playin’ Possum

In Appalachian and Southern speech, "playin’ possum" means pretending to be asleep, dead, or unaware to avoid notice or responsibility. It comes from the possum’s defense trick of keelin’ over and lookin’ dead.

#Appalachia   #Animals   #Southern

Pronunciation

[PLAY-in POSS-um]

Meaning & Usage

- Pretending to be asleep or unaware (verb phrase)

During chores
Mae:
Go wake up your brother.

Earl:
He’s not sleepin’ - just playin’ possum.

- Pretending to be dead (verb phrase)

Talking about a fight
Mae:
Did he knock you out?

Earl:
Nah, I was just playin’ possum till he backed off.

other spellings: pretendin’, fakin’ it, actin’ asleep, ignorin’, stallin’, play dead, and act dumb
★ When used about people, "playin’ possum" almost always hints at laziness, avoidance, or slyness. It can be playful or accusatory, depending on tone. ★

Origin

The phrase comes straight from the possum’s natural defense: falling limp and lookin’ dead to fool predators. By the 1800s, "play possum" was already a common American expression, and it stuck in Appalachian and Southern speech.

Notes

Heard widely across the U.S., but especially strong in Appalachia and the South, where possums are a familiar critter. The saying still shows up in families, jokes, and even politics.

Say It Like a Southerner

Said plain: "play-in poss-um." The "g" in "playing" is usually dropped.

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Common Questions

Does "playin’ possum" only mean pretending to be dead?
No - it also means pretending to be asleep or ignoring something.
Is it just Southern?
It’s understood everywhere in the U.S., but the phrase thrives most in Appalachian and Southern speech.
Do folks still say it today?
Yes - it’s still a lively expression, especially in casual or humorous settings.
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