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Woulda, Coulda, Shoulda

A playful but pointed way of saying it’s too late to change the past - usually when someone is full of regret or making excuses.

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Pronunciation

[WOOD-uh, COOD-uh, SHOOD-uh]

Meaning & Usage

- Missed opportunities (expression)

Too late now
Elmer:
I woulda fixed the fence, but it rained all week.

Estel:
Woulda, coulda, shoulda - but the cows are out now.

variations: would’ve, could’ve, should’ve woulda coulda shoulda would of could of should of
★ This saying’s a reminder that looking back won’t change what happened - better to focus on what you can do next. ★

Origin and Etymology

Likely evolved from conversational English contractions of "would have, could have, should have" in mid-20th century America. Popularized in sports commentary, self-help culture, and everyday speech.

Usage Notes

Often said with a rhythmic, sing-song tone for emphasis, sometimes teasing but sometimes serious.

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Common Questions

Is "woulda, coulda, shoulda" always negative?
Not necessarily - it can be lighthearted teasing or a gentle nudge to move on.
Can you use it about yourself?
Absolutely. Folks often say it to admit their own missed chances.
Is it unique to the South?
No - it’s widely known across the U.S., but you’ll still hear it plenty in Southern and Appalachian speech.

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