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You Can’t Run Before You Crawl

You can’t run before you crawl means you must learn the basics before attempting something advanced. Although it carries a gentle, homespun tone that many folks associate with the South, the saying is not originally Southern or Appalachian. It comes from long-standing English and American proverb traditions about taking things step by step.

#Southernish  

synonyms: take it step by step, start with the basics, don’t rush it, one thing at a time

Pronunciation

[yoo can’t RUN before you CRAWL]
/juː kænt rʌn bɪˈfɔːr ju krɔːl/

Meaning & Usage

- A reminder to master fundamentals first

Everyday use
Mae:
I wanna learn the fancy stitches!

Earl:
Sweetheart, you can’t run before you crawl. Let’s start with the easy ones.

- A gentle caution against impatience

In conversation
June:
Wade’s tryin’ to build the whole shed in one afternoon.

Wade:
Well-

June:
Hush now. You can’t run before you crawl.

variations: you must crawl before you run, crawl before you walk, learn to walk before you run, start at the beginning
★ This saying is perfect for moments when someone’s eager but overwhelmed. It reassures without scolding-just a gentle nudge to start small and steady. ★

Origin

The idea behind "you can’t run before you crawl" belongs to a broad proverb family found in British, European, and early American moral instruction. Variants such as "learn to walk before you run" appear in 19th-century books for children, etiquette guides, and general advice writing across the English-speaking world. While the South uses this phrase often-especially in teaching, parenting, and church settings-it did not originate there, nor was it distinctively preserved by the region. Its Southern reputation comes from its simple, down-home tone rather than historical roots.

Verdict: Southernish. Sounds warm and rural, fits easily into Southern conversation, but comes from widespread English proverb tradition rather than Southern dialect.

Notes

  • Commonly used with children or beginners learning new skills.
  • The simple imagery makes it feel "country," which leads many to assume it’s Southern.
  • Appears nationwide in schools, workplaces, and motivational contexts.
  • Pairs naturally with other step-by-step sayings like "Rome wasn’t built in a day."

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